No, the real problem is the ego driven poster who feels the need to show that their standards are the only right ones and how everyone (including the agencies and industry) are dead wrong. Being overly blunt is a coward's way out of actually trying to discuss the issues in a reasonable manner. There's no need to beat people up to the point where they are afraid to share their problematic dives. The point here is not to see who can get away with being the harshest, but to educate people with less than adequate understandings of accepted diving practices. Often, they are clueless about their ignorance, and peeps jump right in telling them they "should get their money back", "should forget about diving", "are trolls" and of course "will surely die". These types of statements are BEYOND being blunt and are downright unfriendly. No wonder many of these users leave and then we lose the ability to teach them any further.
If you find yourself brimming with pride at how you "slammed that troll" or taught some user "a lesson", then you should look inwardly at how you are coming across. Also, if people constantly suggest that you are arrogant, that you feel you are "God's Gift to Diving" or similar wording, then you need to examine just HOW your are coming across. If you could care less about the feelings of others, well here's a clue: It shows in your postings and you are a part of the problem.
FWIW, it's funny how people are "OK" with being blunt with others and yet they surely don't like it when someone is blunt with them. IOW, I am sure that I ruffled some feathers here. It's easy to justify being unkind and downright snarky in your mind when you just want to PROVE that you are right. It's a lot tougher to show professionalism and patience to those who disagree with you, even on the most basic tenants.
If you find yourself brimming with pride at how you "slammed that troll" or taught some user "a lesson", then you should look inwardly at how you are coming across. Also, if people constantly suggest that you are arrogant, that you feel you are "God's Gift to Diving" or similar wording, then you need to examine just HOW your are coming across. If you could care less about the feelings of others, well here's a clue: It shows in your postings and you are a part of the problem.
FWIW, it's funny how people are "OK" with being blunt with others and yet they surely don't like it when someone is blunt with them. IOW, I am sure that I ruffled some feathers here. It's easy to justify being unkind and downright snarky in your mind when you just want to PROVE that you are right. It's a lot tougher to show professionalism and patience to those who disagree with you, even on the most basic tenants.