Hetland
Contributor
I was notified of the buddy rule before my first day in the pool for my open water cert, so I consider that #1. Doesn't really matter that much, overall.
It matters.
1. Holding your breath while ascending WILL kill you.
2. Diving solo WILL NOT kill you. (no matter how much you scream about it).
That's the reason it's the number one rule. Actually, I was taught it was rule 1 through 3.
I can also say that 100% of my whopping 183 logged dives have been solo dives. I always dive solo, because I am the only one I can depend on 100% of the time. The fact that I sometimes have someone else in the water within a few fin kicks does not change the fact that I am diving solo.
I've had a camera with me for almost every one of those dives, and a speargun for maybe 40%. Sometimes I have a camera AND a speargun in my hands. I have yet to run out of air, suffer dcs, or soil my diapers. I have experienced equipment hiccups and failures, and dealt with them in ways that either resolved the problem, or kept me from being killed by my own solo-diving stupidity. I've also helped other divers with safety issues underwater, all while carrying a camera, or speargun, or both.
For some reason, you suffer a delusion that solo diving = death. I don't disagree that diving with a redundant scuba system, brain, and musculoskeletal system is SAFE-ER. But many, many people in this world execute solo dives all the time without suffering a fatality, and buddy groups kill each other often enough to prove that it's no guarantee of safety. The SAFEST divers I know, are the ones that treat EVERY dive as solo, and are comfortable with themselves underwater, even if other divers are not around.
You clearly have some issues with adults making informed decisions about their own safety. I'm sure the world would be a better place if you were in charge. You could take away our sharp scissors and fatty foods, and butterflies would spring forth from toilets everywhere, but you're not in charge, we're all adults here, and nobody needs you telling them that buddies are compulsory for scuba diving.