catherine96821:thats why it is important to let your "kids" have unstructured "play" time off the school yard, taking the bus, playing basketball in the "ghetto" maybe doing some not so safe activities. AND talk to them about the news, what is going on. I've shown mine some pretty graphic pictures of executed bodies in the name of helping them *know* to some extent what is going on out there. That is a parent's job. Would I turn them over to the government before I had "indoctrinated" them myself? Absolutely not. They are free to think whatever they like, but I got my two cents in and put them through their paces.
Your job is to raise adults, not better, bigger kids.
They have both been in my very special boot camp for quite a few years now.
People will look back and realize what that was worth....
Catherine, I don't know how old your children are but mine are grown and out of the house. I certainly have a long list of things that I should have done different. there's a good chance that you will too.