H2Andy
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Rick Murchison:No one that I know likes to hang around people who tell them "you're not doing it right,"
no one is telling you that. that's what you're hearing
(regarding the name)
they are two different things
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Rick Murchison:No one that I know likes to hang around people who tell them "you're not doing it right,"
Rick Murchison:Yep, the DIR controversy is everybody else's fault for being so insecure and thin skinned, not ours, who are, after all, just doing it right. Oh, yeah!
Thanks for the great example, Soggy
Rick
Diver Dennis:Some are Andy. I've seen it here.
But my point is that the "few" you may be referring to may, in fact, not even be part of the whole. They are more than likely not DIR divers.Diver Dennis:Exactly my point Chris. The few that are the vocal ones lead to the persecution of the whole. That is what the rest see and perceive that all solo divers are like that. Your right, it's not fair.
The number one rule of communication is "the message received is the message." And when multiple recipients get the same message, for the transmitter to then say "it's your fault for not divining what I meant" - especially when the words are simple and clear, like claiming "that's not DIR" means something other than "that's not doing it right" - is just plain... well, it just doesn't hold up to any kind of logical scrutiny.H2Andy:no one is telling you that. that's what you're hearing
(regarding the name)
they are two different things