Of course these are sweeping "us and them" generalizations which were created by those from the "first world" and which are pretty much meaningless. Every country has areas that are "civilized" as well as those that are not.
I recommend one of the most powerful books I ever read--Howard Gardner's
Leading Mind's: An Anatomy of Leadership.
Gardner makes what at first seems to be an obvious statement--An effective leader communicates well with his or her audience. He then goes on to the more complex (and startling) conclusion that with a highly diverse audience, you have to be as effective as possible to
all segments, which is close to impossible. The mistake potential leaders make, especially highly intelligent people, is ignoring a specific segment of that diverse audience, a segment that turns out to be the most important. They are the people whose outlook on life is frozen at what child development scientist Jean Piaget identified as the 5-year old mind. At the 5-year old level, children typically see the world in extremes. Things are black or white, good or bad, right or wrong, etc. It is not until they get older that they can recognize gray areas--the complexities that truly mark the way our world works. Sadly, some people never get over that 5-year old thinking, and Gardner says those people form the most critical portion of the audience, particularly in a voting audience.
For those people, once they have categorized something as good, no attribute of it can ever be even slightly bad. Once something has been determined to be bad, no part of it can ever be good. Potential leaders too often ignore that segment of the population because they dismiss their thinking as simplistic and not worth mentioning. The effective leader, however,
must be sure to address that segment of the audience, even if it means, in essence, lying through oversimplification. You can see it in politicians who do understand it, leaders, for example, who refer to the forces of good opposing the evil-doers, telling the world of the need to confront the axis of evil, because we cannot let that evil prevail. When a leader describes the true complexity of a situation, the 5-year old mind perceives it as a lie, an attempt to hide the truth.