Why do guys do it?

[Divemaster-K]

If you're truly in a monogomous committed relationship, what are you doing drinking and dancing with other guys in bars? And what's with all the bikini-poses on your website?

So... can I get your number?

 

[cdennyb]

you guys are ALL taking this thing way to seriously. It all boils down to the "Old Cow, New Cow" syndrome. It's in the genes, (not jeans) and a very primitative emotional response to the fact the opposite sex is nearby. Most every guy will react the same way, only some of US can hide our deepest primative desires and make you (the other sex) think we're perfect gentlemen, regardless of our present relationship.
db

 

[Divemaster-K]

you guys are ALL taking this thing way to seriously. It all boils down to the "Old Cow, New Cow" syndrome. It's in the genes, (not jeans) and a very primitative emotional response to the fact the opposite sex is nearby. Most every guy will react the same way, only some of US can hide our deepest primative desires and make you (the other sex) think we're perfect gentlemen, regardless of our present relationship.
db

Yeah... but don't you think some of them bring it upon themselves? We all know the difference between No and Maybe. Dear Zoe strikes me as a Maybe kind of gal. They're the absolute most fun to be around, every guy loves a challenge!

 

[SmokingMirror]

And what's with all the bikini-poses on your website?

Maybe THESE have something to do with it!

There is a difference between wanting to look sexy and wanting to look for sex.

 

[Divemaster-K]

There is a difference between wanting to look sexy and wanting to look for sex.

Much agreed. Wouldn't you consider "advertising" for it by placing photos of yourself in a bunny outfit looking for sex? If my G-friend had a website with photos like this I'd have to be a little suspect. Sounds like these two are perfect for each other!

 

[Zoe83]

I know i look good, and i like to dress in what emphasises my good qualities, doesnt everyone?? but that is no reason for guys to persist flirting when i dont do anything to start/encourage it, have made it clear i dont want any of it, and am happy in a relationship. how i look should be irrelivant to people who have respect for me..btw, the bunny thing was for a halloween party, lots of girls went as one, it was for a laugh, i dont take myself seriously. i put it on my website so my friends could see how stupid i looked, not to 'advertise'..if you knew me at all you'd understand that i joke around a lot, am down to earth and quite frankly a bit of a clutz..so the fact i was dressed like that and was probably going to act far from sexy and fall over many times with my 'tail' in the air, is just funny to imagine lol my bf likes the way i look and so do i, the reason i made the website is to store my pictures there, and if anyone takes a look and tries to make a pass at me, even online, i block them off immediately..luckily i havent had to do that..but you all can take it as you will, it doesnt concern me since not many of you seem to want to take my word for it that i dont do anything to provoke the guys..and just to update, all is clear with his current friends, i had a talk to the remaining one, it just took time for them to realise they werent getting anything from me.

 

[H2Andy]

If you're truly in a monogomous committed relationship, what are you doing drinking and dancing with other guys in bars?

ah... having fun? so now once you have a bf/gf you can't
go out and dance anymore?

And what's with all the bikini-poses on your website?

she likes the way she looks and wants to share her pictures
with others?

i don't know... i get the feeling some of us have this huge
double standard here. if a guy did the same things Zoe is doing,
you'd be going "dude, way to party! nice site!" or whatever...

Zoe, basically be aware that young guys are horny most of
the time, and that if given any excuse, most immature guys will convince themselves you want them... NOW...

have fun, party. don't expect this type of guy to think of you as one of the guys, though. they will likely think of you as
a possible score.

 

[divad]

i get the feeling some of us have this huge
double standard here ... guys are horny most of
the time.

Its apparently huger than you know.

 

[H2Andy]

my quote was "young guys are horny most of the time."

now, that may not be PC, but i believe very accurate. as
to whether young women are horny most of the time, i am
not qualified to say. all i know is that they show it in different
(shall we say more subtle?) ways.

also, evad, you seem to be implying that i have a double
standard. want to elaborate?

 

[divad]

my quote was "young guys are horny most of the time."

now, that may not be PC, but i believe very accurate. as
to whether young women are horny most of the time, i am
not qualified to say. all i know is that they show it in different
(shall we say more subtle?) ways.

also, evad, you seem to be implying that i have a double
standard. want to elaborate?

Well, I couldn't imply a double standard any better than you already have. What I meant to imply was that young women,
in my meager but ongoing experience, are at LEAST as horny
as young men.