a. Whether in singles or doubles, I don't have a problem looking up nor do I have a problem tilting my head. If you do, then perhaps there is an issue with how the tank/harness is set up. So, no problem, don't need a solution.
b. While I can imagine a time when I'd want to be able to turn my valve ON while underwater with a single tank, what that means, of course, is that I've screwed up big time. Solution -- make sure my valve is ON before entering the water and thus I don't need a solution. OTOH, I really can't imagine a time when I'd want to be able to turn my valve OFF while diving a single so, again, no need for the proposed solution. (Note -- IF I had a free flow, for example, I will want my tank turned off -- BUT ONLY AFTER I've gone onto my buddy's gas and then it is trivial for my buddy to turn my valve off.)
c. With doubles, I can pretty easily turn on/off my own valves.
OK -- now what problem are you trying to solve?