@Snoweman, after reading your post, if Jorge wasn't your private DM, then you were on the wrong boat. If you made your special request known at the shop, then Pony messed up or there was a scheduling issue. If you didn't make your request until you were on the water, then Jorge's hands were pretty much tied as he had the rest of the boat to consider. At that point it was on you not to exceed your personal limits or comfort. LOL...I can pretty much see Jorge's face during your post dive conversation and quite frankly I agree with him and don't find it cavalier at all given the circumstances. Accusing him of shortening your dive on purpose comes off as pretty "entitled," IMHO. I don't intend to be mean, but I don't appreciate those kinds of public accusations. That said you are certainly welcome to your opinions.
BTW, in this part of the world there is no cert limit for OW beyond staying above established recreational depth. Those are training dive limits you're referring to. The fact that you quoted those in your post tells me you don't seem to pay much attention while posting on SB or well...I'm not going there. Anyway, dive safely and have fun.
All IMHO, YMMV.