The thrust created by a broken valve is not infinite. I calculated the approximate initial thrust from tank pressure and tank weight using a sample dip tube with a measured internal diameter for a number of different tanks. The "winner" was an HP Faber 80, which (ignoring flow effects through the dip tube) would have a maximum thrust of about 350 lbs. If the tank is unrestrained, that's a bit over 10G. But 350 lbs. should not make a tank go through a seat back or a trunk bulkhead on its own. (Your basic AL80 would develop 7-8G.)
If the valve breaks, your sense of hearing is in grave danger of severe permanent damage. They are more likely to break, in my opinion, if the valves are forward than if they are pointed backward. (Go visit a junkyard. More cars die from front end collisions than rear end collisions.)
I've seen a number of different recommendations. Most agencies seem to agree that valve forward is bad, but some prefer horizontal to vertical. I favor "secured" over "not" every time and as rule transport tanks both vertically or horizontally with valves to the rear.