You'll find most of us are not too keen on package deals.
There are many factors in deciding what is right FOR YOU. As what is right for me may not apply to you, or whatever is right for anyone else may not be right for you.
Insist on specifics of why people recommend gear. Saying "it's the best" reminds me (I'm dating myself here) of Johnny Brennan "but I'm the best Jerky!"
You'll find that most of us, but not all of us, prefer a backplate and wing, even for warm water diving. The certifiably insane (not expressing any bias here

) insist on jacket style BCDs. Getting into specifics. I am a minimalist. I like as little clutter on my frontside as possible. I like that for warm water diving, a stainless steel backplate and single tank adapter is all I need. So I don't have to pay for lead weights when I shore dive in Maui. The weight is a none issue for me. I like having 6 lbs on my back, a streamlined harness with minimal material (which is buoyant) and it is very comfortable. Backplates are mostly backplates. There is a difference in price largely dictated by how much time spent on a machine that results in finer/smoother edges or nice graphics. All good companies make good wings. I like the Deep 6 wing for drying quickly. But XDeep, Halcyon, OMS, Apeks, all make good ones too. There is a good deal mentioned already for the DGX BP/W package.
For dive computers, I recommend ones with Buhlmann ZHL-16c, with adjustable gradient factors no RGBM proprietary variants (stay away from Suunto, their customer service is horrible and they are one of the few companies to have been sued) as it is overly conservative. Sure changing conservative factors may be similar to adjusting gradient factors, but when you speak to others about grandient factors, they'll be able to understand and advise you. The king of dive computers is Shearwater. But if you are young and have good eyes, the Deep 6 Excursion is a good option for you.
Choose fins based upon your trim needs (not listed here). I'd recommend a Beuchat derivative. There are a number of companies that have offer one: ScubaPro was the first to copy, there's also Apeks, Deep 6, and others that escape me. Buy based upon whether you want a heavy fin or a close to neutrally buoyant one. To quote Andy Davis, split fins are for chicken legged office dwellers (and that is meant in the most respectful way possible

).
If you want to start a religious war, ask which is "the best" regulator. Oh boy! Just don't forget to insist on criteria for claims of "the best".
Maybe someone like
@VikingDives is close enough to you to try a few options before you buy, so you can make an educated choice.
I hope this is helpful to some degree.