for Scubapro regulators can be had from Peterbilt for right around $100, including the second stage inline adjuster (not really NECESSARY, but nice to have), an IP gauge (easily made for under $20 from a pressure gauge and BC inflator hose adapter, or you can buy them for $30-35 or so), and the bullets and wrenches you need to get it apart and back together without damaging things. There is no secret on buying them nor any code-word - you just need money. Oh, you DO need a quality set of hand tools, and that INCLUDES a torque wrench. I already own that stuff though (two sets actually, one on my boat!) so the incremental cost there was zero.
Now given that an "overhaul" costs $60 or so for a first and second, you only have to work on your reg TWICE for it to be worth it.
And trust me - NOBODY cares more about it being done right than you do!
An awful lot of the time the so-called "must replace" parts aren't. It does take care to know what needs to be replaced and what doesn't, and it also takes care not to destroy things on the way out while disassembling and cleaning things, but often you need only to clean and lube (with O2-compatable lubes, thank you very much!) the reg and put it back together. There usually are a handful of O-rings and perhaps a seat or two that do need replacement, but that is frequently all.
The other nice thing about doing your own is that you can tune your reg the way you want it. I have my backup tuned for my own preference, for example. The usual R380 "octo" tuning is pretty stiff to prevent freeflows. I wear mine bungied, so it is not nearly as likely to freeflow anyway since its out of the slipstream. So I set mine much "looser", and the result is that it breathes pretty darn closely, in terms of actual resistance, to my balanced S600! I do know I'm using it rather than the 600, but the difference is not NEARLY what it was when I first got it.
I don't have a magnehelic gauge; you don't really need one. You can measure cracking pressure with nothing more than water in your sink. 1" of water is 1" of water, whether you use water or a gauge to determine the measurement
(Not that the gauge is all that expensive - I just haven't seen the need to buy one as of yet)
I don't do other people's gear. I DO do my own, and I test it both dry and in my pool before I dive it, then again on a shallow dive before I take the gear to a serious (more than 30' or so) depth. If I work on one second (but not the first or the other) then I already have a backup. If I take the entire reg apart then I prove its assembly both out and in the water before I trust it on anything where I'm not willing to do an immediate CESA if it breaks. I take my time, something no shop monkey will do. And I set my gear up the way I want it done - not the way they think it should be done.