Excellent attitude.
From what I’ve read of your comments, I am concerned about the experience and competence of your instructor. An adult conversation with the instructor and dive shop is required with a serious threat to get your experience reviewed by PADI quality control with the objective being a refund.
Technical training is nothing like Open Water training. It requires far more skills and diving experience for a start. The utter nonsense over your weighting stories plus gas consumption and valve drills is setting off massive alarm bells.
Our standard comment here when embarking on your technical diving career is to choose your instructor carefully. A technical instructor is for life, not just one course like the novice Open Water instruction. You’ll progress through several levels of diving training and it’s vital to get the best, most experienced instructor for your journey.
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The difference between "recreational diving" and technical diving is competence and attitude. A technical diver is highly skilled and spends lots of time practicing skills such as basic core skills (buoyancy, trim, finning), procedures such as valve drills and gas switching skills, spends loads of time readin to understand the theory and planning. In the water a technical diver will have far superior skills than most other divers.
Most of all a technical diver will have a solo mentality, if something happens they will deal with the problem with calm competence without relying on other divers. Their equipment will be of high quality with a focus on redundancy — lighting, cutting devices, spare mask, redundant gas, prudent planning, etc. They will be prepared for the dive in hand with the correct skills, gas and equipment. They will thoroughly check their equipment before jumping in. They will be self-reliant even if diving in a team (aka 'buddy'). They will make good decisions and lead if necessary, e.g. treating limits like an adult; get to minimum gas and end the dive.
Incompetence is punishable by death.
Competent technical divers are properly planned and prepared to prevent piss-poor performance.
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