Let's take a look at pure facts:
1) You do not have experience and skills in diving backmount doubles configuration.
2) Your instructor is useless and does not help you at all
3) You are crying in internet that many things are not working for you.
Let me tell you brutally honest truth. Tech diving is not for weak and sleazy divers. If you make mistake, you die. Unfortunately, my very good friend (who was experienced cave diver drowned in Maexico caves as he made mistake). I would suggest to you to get more experience from good instructors to get appropriate backmount diving skills and then to think about tech diving. Now you are not prepared (mentally and physically) for tech diving.