morecowbells
Contributor
I have horribly janky ears. I had numerous ear surgeries as a child and thought I would never be able to dive. Fortunately I was wrong. It takes me a long time to descend. I communicate the issue with my dive master and other divers on the boat prior to starting dive. Once your DM becomes familiar with you and your diving skills, perhaps you and your buddy can start descending after backrolling off boat and giving okay signal. It seems that the first couple of dives typically present longer equalization times. There can be a lot of anxiety and pressure watching your group descend faster while the distance grows between you and the other divers. For that reason, I would hire your own DM for the first day for some additional peace of mind.
I take the 12 hour Sudafed in the morning. I reduce my coffee intake by half, since the Sudafed seems to make me feel 'caffeinated'. Start routinely equalizing your ears at least a week before your dive vacation. This helps the eustation tubes burp out excess fluid and I feel it makes the tympanic membrane more pliable. I have heard other divers swear by using Afrin (not to be used for more than 3 days) and Mucinex. I have not tried those meds.
I take the 12 hour Sudafed in the morning. I reduce my coffee intake by half, since the Sudafed seems to make me feel 'caffeinated'. Start routinely equalizing your ears at least a week before your dive vacation. This helps the eustation tubes burp out excess fluid and I feel it makes the tympanic membrane more pliable. I have heard other divers swear by using Afrin (not to be used for more than 3 days) and Mucinex. I have not tried those meds.