I'm not sure if you're talking about me or not (I zero'ed a cave, and broke the line while grabbing it) during a 2nd stage failure. If it is, anyone here is more than welcome to discuss it-- I'd rather have someone think I'm an idiot than hear someone died that could have made better decisions after considering my mistakes. Never the less, I exited under my own power and sharing gas was never even a consideration, even with the 5 minute delay looking for the lost line. I could still see 2-3 inches, I just couldn't find a line that had been blown away by the flow and landed in poofy silt. Had we been stage diving, the extra gas in my remaining tank would have gotten me to the point where viz cleared up. The real issue here was that I was diving side mount, which is a dangerous gear configuration from a gas management standpoint, but required for that dive.
Also IMO getting a OOA diver with elevated SAC onto a stage bottle is *not* the right answer unless the cave is shallow and a stage lasts quite a long time. Give the smaller bottle to the diver without a failure, because with the elevated SAC, the OOA diver is going to be OOA again shortly. Putting him on back gas is best, and allow the diver without a failure to manage the stages.