love2godeep:I was near the bottom, but it sloped down and I could have gone quite a bit deeper.
The divemaster was supposed to be my instructor. (She had been on previous dives.) She also had the other four people to look after, and of course could not do much with me.
For the record, I did speak with the dive op; told them I had been promised a private instructor, and that the deep dive had not been anywhere near what PADI requires. First response: "What did you expect? That we would take you out all by yourself on the boat?"
argggh! But I explained that I expected to have a private dive instructor, with someone else to take out the rest of the divers.
They agreed to take me out again, no extra charge. And this time to do the deep dive properly.
Shall I go????
Uhmm....it sounds like you are a responsible diver taking charge of yourself while diving, That's good. Your behavior was good, and I think you did everything by the book: aborted the dive when you couldn't find the group, ascented slowly, did your safety stop and deployed your safety-sausage to be visible at the surface.
The DM has no reason to give you any heat: you were responsible and, in addition, you are a paying client. However I understand why the DM said what she said: she were stressed, she knew that she had screwed up and she knew that it was no thanks to her that you had a safe dive after all.
You might be able to do fine with the instructor for the deep-dive, however if I were you I'd probably prefer continuing my training with someone a little more responsible. However if the deep dive is all you need for your AOW, then do it and be over with it.....