mrjimboalaska:
Personal responsibility is something not taught any more. Look at the school system, and the lack of disapline, as well as the fact that the law has removed the ability of parents to disapline. NOT MY FAULT is the phrase today. "Feel Good" teaching and raising of kids has caused this.
Such a terrible thing for a family to go thru.......
True all that! My family is currently going through some tough times, due to someone not taking personal responsibility for their own actions. Re the school system: kids coming to
us as schoolteachers without a sense of responsibility for their actions, it is not the fault of the system, nor their schoolteachers. I don't accept "I didn't do it!", when I have WATCHED one student pop another one in the back in the lunchline. Parents call to complain if their child is held accountable for their actions/grades/etc., and blame the teachers or the kid their child sits next to. They will lie for their kids absences, grades, homework, field trips, etc. They will do their kid's projects and get p.o.'d when their kid gets a "C". I had one parent write me a note, complaining that the answers for # 7 & 12 were
too right, and that her kid needed a higher grade on that paper. I took a closer look at the paper, saw that someone other than the student had done the paper. I wrote back to the mother that the next time she does her kid's homework, to be a little more careful, and invited her to come see me if she wants to know how to work the problems. She did apologize, I have to give her that. Wonder where the kids have learned to say, "I'm gonna sue!" if I accidently brush against a foot while walking through the room. Anyway, I've hijacked a very sad thread, and I apologize, but I had to get on my soapbox about that.
This is a tragic event and should not be taken lightly. I do believe that this young teen is the one responsible for this accident- not his parents, not the school system, not the innocent boaters and snorkler who were injured. He could have had the best parents and school system known to man, and that kid would still choose his own destiny. He could have been a good kid from a good family- he did something way stupid, and someone innocent was killed as a result. It's impossible to keep your kids from doing something stupid, if they're bound and determined to do it. It's a tragic and terrible thing. I pray peace for the families involved.