Victoria started the O.W course with me and did great until the pool session and she didn't really enjoy it At ALL!!!! So I have done a couple of DSD's with her and also got my instructor friends to take her in our training pool. She has a pool in her backyard so I have tried numerous time there as well. I haven't forced her to try it again and again, she just sees how much I love it and wants to share it with me, so she insists on trying it again. I know Scuba Mau will do there best with her.
Matthew
Not to hijack, but that sounds like my wife. She enjoys snorkeling, but just really isn't a diver. She gets too freaked out in deep water. We tried multiple pool sessions and even in shallow water she was out of her comfort zone. I was constantly worrying about her, so I just told her to hang it up. It got to the point to where I couldn't enjoy my dives. There are some people that are just more snorkelers than divers. I just wouldn't push her too hard.
My girlfriend Colleen had quite a struggle herself, before she finally certified. Took two separate cycles to finally earn her OW. We kid that it took her 5 years, in 5 different countries before she was finally able to pass. Her issue was more a gear/technology thing, as she gets herself anxious whenever she is dealing with technology and machines. Gets too tense and tires herself out with anxiety and then frustration.
BUT, she was determined. She loved to snorkel, and wanted to be under the water with me, instead of just watching us from the surface. After a trip to Puerto Rico, and Desecheo Island, where she watched our entire dive from the surface, and saw our interactions with rays, etc, she became even more determined to join me!
It took an added effort by PADI Course Director Rich Morin to finally help her overcome her equipment block, relax, and just enjoy the dive. She made it (Thank you Rich!) and now has logged over 75 dives, and she is the one who decided our next trip will be Coz, another place she had only gotten to see from the surface before!
What I am saying, is some people take a lot more time and effort to adapt to being under water with life support equipment, which is really what dive gear is when you get right down to it. Colleen was determined, but she had to do it at her own pace, and repeat various steps until she was comfortable enough to stop overthinking, and just dive. Then, it became a piece of cake,
mostly. (Jim still has to deal with and solve any and all equipment issues
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