To salt water dives in the NY/NJ/CT area you have to jump through hoops to find legal places and parking where you don't need a resident sticker (you can pay $15 or more as an out of state resident in state parks). Yeah, I grew up there and return for 7 weeks each summer for non-diving reasons (but do dive weekly there). Consider moving to Nova Scotia where you pull off the side of the road, no park fee, no lifeguards ("swim at your own risk"--seen that at Jones Beach?), walk from your car and dive....
Sometimes my freinds in Scarsdale, Yonkers and Westchester asked me why I left....