I was in the same boat as you about a year ago, you may want to read the thread I started
" Making the Leap"
My advise would be to do exactly what you seem to be. Put a spreadsheet together and really study the pro's and con's of the different features and decide if they are relevant \ important to you and the type of diving you may be doing. A new RB divers priority list may differ from an experienced pilot (their muscle memory is developed and they may not want to "unlearn something").
View the advise you receive from individuals with healthy skepticism, they want you in their club or have a financial interest. Many are sincere and simply don't understand what else is out there or what other features are beneficial. Much of what they say will make perfect sense until you post it here on SB and let the experts take it apart!
Now for the Cool-Aid
I did an enormous amount of research before deciding on the O2ptima.
(I am very grateful for all the help I received here on SB, helped me from making a big mistake)
Most of the negatives about the unit are from previous versions.
One part of my decision to go with the O2ptima is the convertibility to the chest mount unit for travel. The cost is about $2,500 and I get another 17lb breather!
Not having the ability to dewater a unit is a non-starter for me.