TSandM:
Another book with similar themes is Beyond the Deep, by William Stone and Barbara am Ende. This is the story of their 1994 expedition into the Huautla cave system. Similar to the U-boat story are the driven, obsessed characters, taking on risks that would daunt the rest of us, in order to achieve a goal that people not involved in their avocation might regard as not at all worth dying for.
I find such people fascinating. They are seldom easy to know and often very difficult to work with. The personal costs of what they do are frequently extremely high -- failed relationships and financial difficulties, not to mention injuries. But they accomplish what more rational people do not. I don't want to be one of them, but I am glad they exist.
Yes, it takes all sorts. You are right in your general perceptions of these individuals, but I do not find them fascinating. I used to, I even was jealous of them and wanted to be one. But then I became peace based instead of ego based and saw them for what they are...just another out of balance person.
I was writing a post about mediocrity. One fellow wrote me to argue to live a life without self imposed limits or be subject to mediocrity. This is true in many a case. But, this fellow failed to see that great success in one area did not guarantee great success in all areas. Or as the Taopists say, "fleas come with the dog." And as he may succeed in one thing, he is a complete failure in another area. I put peace first and 'driven success' way down the list. Yes, I will never accomplish such great feats, but I do enjoy great inner peace if I am mindful of my boundaries and live within them. In any case, it is all matter of personal choice and if we are happy being ego driven to an early death, then who is to say otherwise. We only have to please ourselves.
Plutarch tells us "Just as a life of virtue yields its own reward, a life of vice yields its own punishment"
This goes with accomplishments as well. They can yield rewards but they also have prices or punishment to pay for extending ourselves beyond our comfortable means.
I've included an old post on this subject that explains this concept more.
"Poorness ... is a state of mind"
Written for a 12 step group
Poor? Poor is a state of mind and all such problems are created in the mind. From 'As A Man Thniketh'..."Wretchedness, not lack of material possessions, is the measure of wrong thought. A man may be cursed and rich; he may be blessed and poor...the poor man only descends into wretchedness when he regards his lot as a burden unjustly imposed." How can a person like Thoreau feel rich with $10 in his pocket, yet many a modern day millionaire feels poor? In two words - Self Worth. Self worth cannot be bought and resides within a person whereas money is external and sits in a bank vault. The acid test for such things is to take away a person possessions and strip a person naked and see how much self worth is left? Was all their self worth wrapped up in their house? Their car? Their trophy wife? Their bank account? If you ever wonder why rich people sometimes commit suicide after they have lost their wealth, this is the reason. All their self worth was locked up in a bank vault - there was nothing left within them to live for.
If you equate living within a budget as being poor, then you are not looking at the big picture. To be practical, everyone has a budget to live within, if they want to manage their money successfully and stay solvent. Even Bill Gates with his billions has a budget. Depending on which projects he would take on, his billions wouldn't go far enough. Or lets go to the ultimate source, the US Government. Even though they can print money at will (more or less) they have a budget to follow. So why should we be any different and not accept our limits? Defiance and abhorring limits or boundaries are two outstanding characteristics of the addict. Accepting my comfortable means and developing a real gratitude for those means has led to great inner peace, Whereas in my prior life nothing was ever enough and there was no peace. I look at the clarity a budget provides as freedom, not limitations. For without that clarity, I'd be in debt and suffering and far from feeling free.
We can develop much happiness in life once we start practicing gratitude as Thoreau wrote: "I am grateful for what I am & have. My thanksgiving is perpetual. It is surprising how contended one can be with nothing definite - only a sense of existence." I discussed this subject in an earlier post "Grateful Just To Be." Would not every great man or woman that took a spiritual path be considered a failure if viewed in monetary terms alone without gratitude for the rest of their life? Was the Buddha, Jesus, Thoreau or Mother Teresa vastly rich? The Buddha a homeless beggar having to be fed by others with charity? A well loved Greco-Roman philosopher Epictitus was said to have 4 possessions when he died - a cloak, a bowl, a candle and sandals. Socrates even surpassed Epictitus in his simplicity. All Socrates owned was a cloak and walked around Athens barefoot. I am not writing this to persuade you to go around barefoot and not own anything. I am just conveying the knowledge that the great spiritual and philosophical practitioners of history would not be considered successes when viewed in monetary terms alone. But, they were great success when it came to inner peace.
In the real world, we all need some money to live. Some people get the wrong idea that I am against money when I write you suggesting you put peace first and money last. No, I value money greatly, get all of it you can by legal, honorable and legitimate means. But also realize that money is only one part of the equation for living a good life. What I do guard against is turning money into a god and destroying one's life and the lives of others to get money by artificial means. Thoreau tells us that we need food, shelter, fuel and clothes as necessities. In modern times, I will add transportation to the list depending on your local. Everything else is pretty much optional. If we have these needs met and are still not happy, then their is no end to our supposed needs for that elusive state of happiness that we seek. We all seem to have no shortage of supposed needs or wants. The problem arises when we have to scale back and force ourselves as AA's 12 and 12 tells us to live "right size" and our self worth is attached to the idea of looking for inner fulfillment through outer possessions. Money is a useful tool, but as one writer reminds us - money only goes so far.
Money can buy a house, but not a home.
Money can buy a bed, but not sleep.
Money can buy a clock, but not time.
Money can buy a book, but not knowledge.
Money can buy food, but not an appetite.
Money can buy position, but not respect.
Money can buy blood, but not life.
Money can buy medicine, but not health.
Money can buy sex, but not love.
Money can buy insurance, but not safety.
You see, money is not everything
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