Travel is the tall pole in the tent, depending on where you live. Packing a big bottle is pretty difficult and expensive if flying. Renting any pony at travel destinations also a long shot, so you sling something oversize. Even this tends to be discouraged on many boats unless the are technically oriented.
And, I can see a personal preference for a smaller bottle for air travel. With regard to my recommendations for the OP, I understood he was looking for a bottle to use for 'recreational diving here in So. Cal.', not for travel, at least those were his comments. As for the travel issue, I haven't encountered a problem in the Caribbean, but I also check ahead to see what is available, and what is allowed. I am used to slinging bottles of various sizes, up to an AL80, and don't mind renting one. It is just my personal preference not to add the weight and bulk of an AL13 to my gear bag when traveling. I guess, if I ever planned a trip to a destination where I could not use a second AL80 as a pony, I might consider flying with a small cylinder like a 13.
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Not sure what you are asking. I never have any octo other than the one on my pony. As far as hose length, you missed the point. The fact that the hose is attached to me makes any hose too short. I can unclip the pony and hand it off and be free of the encumberment. Safer for both divers.
OK, I see what you are saying now. I misunderstood your emphasis on your primary when diving with others. I wrongly presumed you were implying that you used a second octo on your back gas reg when diving with others, and were bothered by donating the primary second stage, which is usually on a shorter hose, rather than the octo, on the slightly longer hose. The clarification is helpful - you hand off the second stage on your pony, and the pony itself, and continue to breath from your back gas and primary second stage.
Again, I don't see your point.
My point was, as I said, it is a matter of personal preference. I prefer to have a second octo on my backgas. And, I prefer not to hand off a cylinder in the unlikely event that another diver has an OOA situation. And, I prefer to pressurize my pony, but leave the valve closed. That is probably habit as much as logic, I can argue either way - leave it on, or turn it off. In a catastrophic gas failure, I will have time to turn the valve on. I see nothing wrong with your approach, I just prefer an alternative.