Grateful diver; you seem to agree with me that no one wants a nanny state here. I am stating that a certified diver must use their own judgement as to make a dive if it is outside their comfort zone.If it is outside their comfort zone then they either sit it out or hire a pro,and pay him/her to make the dive. Do not want to pay for a pro and uncomfortable about the dive,,then sit that dive out..Do not expect a Dm who maybe conducting a group dive to be responsible for their personal safety. I am sick and tired of people placing blame on others for their own mistakes. This is why the damned lawyers and insurance companies are getting rich off us.
They are trained to be ow certified divers.That means they are supposed to be able to take correct actions and think for themselves. If they cannot do that then maybe they should not be ow certified and just "scuba certified" where they have many restrictions and cannot dive without a pro escorting them. If student can complete all ow required skills but shows me inability to be mature enough to use proper judgement for their level of training and experience, I only would issue them "scuba certification"..not ow certification.Why put them and or their buddies at risk by giving them full ow certification?
Oh, and I do very well remember being new where I called off a dive when I was new and did not feel right about the conditions that day and time. I have absolutely no issues if someone calls a dive off. I respect them more when they call off a dive than when they try to push thru one they are uncomfortable about. There are bold divers and old divers.There are NO OLD BOLD DIVERS.
In some cases you won't know you're uncomfortable about the dive until you're down there. In some cases you're going to convince yourself that you're just being a wuss, and spoiling your dive buddy's good time. In some cases you're going to believe the dive pro who assures you that the dive is "easy" (because for them it is).
Maturity in diving is the same as maturity in life ... you develop it through experience.
I had to call off a class dive just two days ago, because I got to the dive site and conditions weren't suitable ... recent weather had reduced visibility to less than two feet. The student showed up about 20 minutes after me, and was fully prepared to dive. When I told her we were not diving, she looked relieved ... she'd been very apprehensive about doing the dive, but didn't want to say anything because she thought I'd be upset with her. We had a long talk about listening to your inner voice, and not being afraid about what other people think. This wasn't a new diver ... she's just new to our area and dive conditions. So under different circumstances ... or with a different dive buddy, she would've been more inclined to say "not today" ... but not under these circumstances.
I have one significant disagreement with what your wrote ... I don't think any diver is "mature enough to use proper judgment" after only four OW checkout dives. What they have is a limited experience, under very controlled conditions ... the "kernel" around which to begin to develop that maturity. Judgment comes through the context of experience.
I don't, personally, understand why so many new divers are encouraged to go to Cozumel. The dives tend to run deeper than the 60-foot recommended maximum depth, they're mostly drift dives, and the diver has not been exposed to those conditions at all. Where is this "maturity" supposed to have come from? The tendency is for this new diver to put pressure on themselves to take a "leap of faith" that goes well beyond the scope of their training.
Should it be this way? Of course not ... but that's what it is. Is it the diver's fault for putting themselves in this position? Partly. But it's also the fault of the person who sold them the trip ... and the person who put them on that site, knowing that it's going to expose them to conditions that are NOT similiar to those in which they were trained.
What we have here is a conflict of interest ... diver safety vs dive industry profit.
What we ended up with in this case was ... if I'm reading the OP correctly ... someone who didn't dive again for the rest of the week, and probably hasn't been underwater since. And we wonder why there's a 70+% dropout rate in diving? Well ... there's a perfect example why.
Fortunately, in this case it didn't result in a significant injury ... or worse.
To my concern, it's a pretty damned stupid way to promote the industry. Everything I've read about this incident suggest to me that this couple had neither the skills nor the background for this dive ... nor, since it was their first experience post-OW, did they have the ability to recognize that was the case.
I won't say that's all their fault ... we, as an industry, need to do a better job of preparing these folks before sending them off on their own with the expectation that they'll have developed adequate judgment to know when they're in over their head. Four dives doing mask flood and clear while kneeling on a platform just ain't gonna get that job done ...
... Bob (Grateful Diver)