Raokey is spot on with his comments, it is not the tanks that are the problem it is the dive industry. Take a trip down to your local hydro facility and talk to the guy who does these inspections daily. It might give folks a different view on the cylinder failures. (BTW my local tester hates Al cylinders of all types).
I will not comment on the NESS offer and the pricing I can see it both ways. HOWEVER, to say the 6351 cylinders are dangerous I do not feel was correct and just propigates the problem. If the cylinders were dangerous there would have been a recall long ago. There is a level of care needed and DOT has put that in writting as has Luxfer.
As for the stops that will not fill 6351 cylinders. What that says to me is that they do not have people qualified to fill cylinders. If in doubt about a cylinder why do not they do it themselves and stick a frickin sticker on it themselves for free!! Rather than piss a customer off telling them they have a dangerous cylinder, refuse to fill it, then offer to sell them a new one. Sorry that stinks in my book.
Because PSI was previously referenced I will add one more:
http://www.psicylinders.com/library/Current/6351_review.htm
BTW, any shop can make up a stupid sticker and teach their employee to inspect a cylinder but that does not mean they know what they are doing. OTOH, just because they have take a inspection course and passed does not mean they what they are doing either.
Finally, for what it is worth, while at my hydro facility I saw a 3AL cylinder with not one but two SLCs. I also saw a bunch of failed steels.