I'm just going to give up and assume you haven't bothered to read any of the posts I've made in this thread.
I *explicitly* mentioned that a pony bottle makes sense for instabuddies. I asked about solid teams not "new to each other" divers.
And yes, I'd MUCH rather rely on another smart, skilled human than a "dumb" piece of gear. Both can provide gas, but only one can provide another brain. I'm perfectly happy for you to make a different choice, though. That boats should dictate that choice (either choice, BTW, I don't particularly like boats that won't allow appropriately equipped solo divers either!), however, does strike me as silly.
Once upon a time there was a diver who had a bag of lobsters and blew on o-ring at 130'. He thought it made more sense to swim to his buddy who is carting along a speargun and stringer of fish and use his alternate air source rather than just switch to his pony tank secured to his highly trained/skilled back.