When I become convinced the doctor I have is not giving me good advice I get a new doctor, Would you stick with one who was giving you very different advise than other doctors were giving your friends in very similar situations? Especially if they were getting good outcomes? Any time there was as wildly different opinion between doctors as there is between dive computers somebodies medical license should be looked at.Isn't this kind of like telling someone to get a different doctor if they don't like the advice provided by the current doctor?
If someone doesn't like the advice provided by their current computer, they don't actually need to buy another computer. They can simply ignore the current computer... right? Essentially the same philosophy, but saves a good deal of money.
Stepfen, if I can offer one bit of advice that I didn't see addressed in any of the responses yet. Get in the habit of planning your dives, every dive. In this case, if you had spent 60 seconds with your buddy before that dive and compared the projected NDLs given by your computers for the next dive, you would have likely seen in advance a noticeable difference. You could then have discussed with your buddy how the two of you would handle the dive, and both of you would have been aware of the situation (i.e. that your NDL was going to be much less than his) before getting in the water.
I don't want to ignore my doctor or my dive computer. I want both to give me reasonable solutions.