My father-in-law is 95, and I have thought a number of times about what it would be like to outlive your friends and even your children. I'm not quite old enough to have that begin to happen to me . . . but I'm "outliving" my dive buddies.
I got certified seven years ago, and not too long afterwards, picked up two regular buddies. One rarely dives any more, and the other mostly teaches. I met a bunch of great people down in Monterey, and most of them aren't diving any more, either. I hooked up with some fantastic friends in Southern California, and still have one solid buddy I can visit and dive with there.
I've made some new friends locally, but I miss all the folks I used to know.
Anybody else dived long enough to go through this? It's rather disconcerting.
I got certified seven years ago, and not too long afterwards, picked up two regular buddies. One rarely dives any more, and the other mostly teaches. I met a bunch of great people down in Monterey, and most of them aren't diving any more, either. I hooked up with some fantastic friends in Southern California, and still have one solid buddy I can visit and dive with there.
I've made some new friends locally, but I miss all the folks I used to know.
Anybody else dived long enough to go through this? It's rather disconcerting.