kimbalabala
Contributor
I dive alone much of the time, or with what to me are kids. I really enjoy diving with people much younger, but I sometimes wonder if I enjoy being with them more than they enjoy having me along. Sometimes they get a little annoyed when we complete a dive and I have much more air left than anyone else. I tell them to slow down and really look at small things, and they tell me to keep up with them. They also get a laugh at my equipment, some of which was manufactured before they were born.
My husband just turned 59 and I'm 52 and we are both quite jealous of anyone who comes back to the boat with tons of air. There was a couple in Grand Cayman that did this every dive - and their advice was the same as yours - "slow down and look at the small things". That was the first time it really sunk in that when the captain says "be back in 45 minutes or at 500 psi" that it wasn't the start of a race!
All this talk makes me a bit sad because it's hard enough to FIND dive buddies. I don't want to lose any of them for any reason. I can't imagine what people do on vacation if they're not diving. I've become a bit small minded I guess. Vacation = diving.