Steelyeyes
Contributor
Wow. That last line grabbed me pretty hard. Looking through this section the last couple of days makes me think that the Puget Sound diving community had a really rough summer.
Diving as a group of eight. In Puget Sound. And no one realized she was missing . . .
I read this and I want to cry, and I want to hit somebody. Quite simply -- if you are diving as part of a large group, you are, to all intents and purposes, diving alone. No one has taken responsibility for knowing where you are. No one is YOUR buddy. You may not be able to get anyone's attention if you are in trouble, as this woman obviously couldn't.
At the risk of sounding an incredible zealot, I am SO glad I dive in a world where "team" is a central concept. The dive can go hang, if necessary, to make sure the team is okay. The commitment is REAL, and it is honored in the observance.
Please, especially you new divers . . . don't dive in groups. Always insist that one person step up and accept the role of being YOUR buddy. Make sure that person knows you are new, and you may bear watching.
No one should die diving, but by God, no one on earth should die alone in the water, unless they deliberately went there that way.