I acknowledge that differences exist, but I think they are minor and easily addressed. I don't see the need to make a big deal out of it, and I think we are engaging in what Freud called "the Narcissism of small differences".
Excerpted From Wikipedia:
The Narcissism of small differences is a term coined by Sigmund Freud in 1917, based on the earlier work of British anthropologist Ernest Crawley. 'Crawley, in language which differs only slightly from the current terminology of psychoanalysis, declares that each individual is separated from the others by a "taboo of personal isolation"...this "narcissism of minor differences"'[1]. The term describes 'the phenomenon that it is precisely communities with adjoining territories, and related to each other in other ways as well, who are engaged in constant feuds and ridiculing each other' - 'such sensitiveness...to just these details of differentiation'[2].
In terms of postmodernity, consumer culture has been seen as predicated on 'the "narcissism of small differences"...to achieve a superficial sense of one's own uniqueness, an ersatz sense of otherness which is only a mask for an underlying uniformity and sameness'
The emotional need for an "Ersatz Sense of Otherness" explains a lot of what we see in all these endless debates on Scubaboard.