I agree that it's more fun to dive with your buddies, rather than an instabuddy. But if it's between not going and instabuddy. I'll take instabuddy everytime.
You may want to look at some of the other threads on the NC page. I know there's a guy on here (Capt Tim?) that keeps his boat just north of Wilmington and he was looking for people to go with.
If you end up diving in Morehead City area, let me know. I'm the opposite of most people, weekends are hard, but the only thing between me and diving during the week is a leave slip