Been to Divi three times and Buddy's once. In fact, this past April my wife and I spent the first week at Divi and joined a group of our friends at Buddy's for the second week. Had a great time both weeks. Our personal opinion is we felt Divi was a little easier for us. Great individual gear lockers as opposed to an equipment room. Walking distance to town for evening drinks and dinner. Good house reef. Rented truck from Budget Can load tanks and equipment from locked side gate (ask for key for the week). If using air, can get tanks from main parking lot (Nitrox only outside of dive shop). We always get the "deluxe rooms" (which really means waterfront). Basic hotel type room but was keeped clean.
We enjoyed Buddy's in the group situation. Evenings at the pool bar sharing the days stories and pics. Had a studio room in the older section, was OK though we did have AC issues for a couple of days (They did finally replace the whole inner evap unit and the outer condenser unit but we had workers in our room all one day. Was OK since we really do not spend much daytime in room but was concerned for our belongings. No problem that we know of). I'm sure A/C problems could happen anywhere. House reef was good. Did like the tank drive thru but it crowded up at end of day with the rinse tanks there. Truck was included, good. Had a couple of individual gear lookers at drivethru but in poor repair (missing and/or broke doors). Other than that was communal gear room or take equip back to room. Dive staff at both places are good. Having been to Divi a few times we were more aquainted with the staff there, and were treated well as repeat customers. Heard same thing from Buddy's repeat customers. IMHO we would go back to Buddy's again in a group situation like before, but if just my wife and I we would definately stick with Divi. Any specific questions feel free to PM. Jersey huh, where abouts? Good luck planning and all the places I have seen on BON will be what you make of them.
Tom & Isabelle