P-valve: I'd advise getting one. It won't affect your learning curve.But does it make sense, if the water is not too cold, to not use the pee valve and the dry glove system and just focus on developing good buoyancy and then add these two elements later?
Also, these dry suit technical undergarments are extraordinarily expensive. And this is coming from a guy who has spent good money on quality stuff. I assume everyone carries spare undergarments with you in case of a leak, right? I'm trying to get a picture of what your garment selection looks like if it's still cold topside (spare undergarments, warm hat during SI, etc).
Gloves: I'm in the "I hate to wear gloves" camp, but diving in the 40's would necessitate them for me.water temps in the 40's
Undergarments: I have two 300g undergarments, but that's mostly for travel. If I'm teaching, I'll bring both, but I've never changed out, so far. Mostly I have the backup so I can completely dry my undergarments and launder them during trips.
I also think that most "scuba" undergarments are a colossal waste of money. I have a couple of Gul fleece radiation undergarments that were about $60 each. I'll throw on a polyfill jacket over one of them and I can easily do a 2 hour dive in 61'ish degree water.