and the shop always fills to the pressure stamped on the tank.
Do they really change pressure depending the tank rating in Italy Angelo??
Wherever else I have seen (here in Greece, Indonesia, Egypt, Jordan), they fill to 200bar. They have an automatic pressure switch that turns off the compressor at the set pressure and actually since most do hot fills (directly from the compressor) they set it to ~220bar hot which goes down to around 200bar once the tank cools down. Interestingly they do that (220bars hot) even for lower rated tanks like the standard 11.1lt/207bar aluminum tanks (but that's another story).
Most won't bother to do anything else than that. Very few bother to do 300bar if requested (they have to bypass the automatic switch). I haven't seen anybody bothering to do anything in between (eg 232bar let alone 207bar).
To me these things should be simple. Drop your tank to the fill station and expect to get it back with 200 usable bars of gas. Do you want more gas (for whatever reason)? Get a bigger tank.
I've seen so many HOT discussions here in SB about + or no + signs, lost + signs, tank of 80cuft or 81cuft or 79.6456654872cuft, 3000 or 3512 or 3125.365psi, HP LP etc, cave fills or whatever else... OMG...
I am out of here before the storm hits me too.