just don't get it ladies help please.

[Adrenalinerush]

F word? I didn't swear at her. If you mean friend she used it before me.
I kinda figured that she was mad but there's this 1. She's been wanting to go out for drinks but where she wants to go it's not always easy to get her in. I do not think she gets that. We never have made firm plans.I was out w/ a buddy and she called and we determined that she could not get in. I offered to met her someplace else but she said she didn't want to and it was fine and to forget it. I mean I am not about to get anyone in trouble for this girl. I left soon after and called her and apologized and again to day. she was like it's fine why you are apologizing. told it was b/c it we couldn't get her drink.

ohhh, it might be b/c was we never have made firm plans isn't? I never did mainly b/c her age and she's stated before thats someone my age (28) is too old.

 

[TheRedHead]

Is she underage? And she wants you to use you to escort her to a bar to drink? And you really care if she's mad at you because you were hesitant to do something illegal?

 

[Adrenalinerush]

Web- I think you just confirmed my thought process of my post. Now the question is can I or more correctly how can I fix it? I guess by asking her if she wants to get dinner is a good place to place to start,right?

it's a offical there's a reason why I'm single and it b/c I'm an idiot. It's kinda funny b/c I was on myspace and found her page (didn't know she had one) and on it was your weakness, her answer Comprehending Love signals.
where's a bangs head on wall smiley when you need one.

 

[H2Andy]

man, this chick's gotten into your head

you know what she's thinking about right now? probably what to eat as a snack
'cause she's hungry

take a deep breath...stop second-guessing yourself

decide what *you* want to do

so... what do you want to do?

 

[tkring]

I would simply acknowledge that you have hurt her feelings and apologize. Also, offering this with a flower and smile doesn't hurt. I wish you good luck with this one.

 

[Missdirected]

F word? I didn't swear at her. If you mean friend she used it before me.
I kinda figured that she was mad but there's this 1. She's been wanting to go out for drinks but where she wants to go it's not always easy to get her in. I do not think she gets that. We never have made firm plans.I was out w/ a buddy and she called and we determined that she could not get in. I offered to met her someplace else but she said she didn't want to and it was fine and to forget it. I mean I am not about to get anyone in trouble for this girl. I left soon after and called her and apologized and again to day. she was like it's fine why you are apologizing. told it was b/c it we couldn't get her drink.

ohhh, it might be b/c was we never have made firm plans isn't? I never did mainly b/c her age and she's stated before thats someone my age (28) is too old.

It seems to me she doesn't really care about having a drink. She wants to be around you. Find out what you want. If you think you'd like to see her make a move before you really irritate her She is trying to be coy - she's 20. Give her a break and make a move before she has to :whack: you over the head - that might hurt :joke:

Oh, and IMHO stop apologizing - she's only irritated you haven't gotten the hint that she desires attention from you.

 

[H2Andy]

Find out what you want.

see?

 

[Adrenalinerush]

Redhatmama- . It just so happened that I was at a bar when she called. But to answer your question if thats what she wants from me then no I do not care. on the other hand she has mentioned going to dinner once or twice and I was too blind I guess.

 

[tkring]

Oh, this is all too complicated - If you want to keep the friendship going, I would just walk up to her and try talking again. If she continues to give you the cold shoulder then I would give her space. Not much else you can do at this point.

 

[TheRedHead]

I think you should write her a limerick...