Spratman:
What everyone else said. Have someone teach you how to frog kick. It does wonders for your SAC rate, since you are not cranking as hard to move.
Another subtle but important effect of frog kicking is that you will get neutral in the water. With a frog kick there is a significant glide portion following each kick. If you aren't neutral you will ascend or descend while gliding.
TS&M, NWGrateful Diver, and others have covered things pretty well, so my comment is just to emphasize what I've seen to be the core issue -----
You use a lot of air if you are working too hard. If you are excited and nervous you tend to zoom around excessively. If you aren't neutral in the water, then you have to keep finning continuously to maintain depth. If you stop, you start sinking. This adds to the nervousness.
One of the hardest to learn underwater skills is learning to do
NOTHING!
If you learn to maintain neutral buoyancy at all times, you can just stop whenever you feel like it, and you'll stay in the same place. Being able to do this has a very calming effect. You don't get the feeling that you need to rush around. You can slow down, look around, and take in what's going on around you.
Don't concentrate on breathing or on trying to conserve air. Just work on being able to do nothing other than just hanging there motionless enjoying the moment. At any point in the dive, you should be able to just stop all motion and ascend slowly with full lungs and descend slowly with empty lungs.
At first, it may be easiest to work on being neutral while doing your safety stop.
Charlie Allen
p.s. Proper weighting makes staying neutral easier, but even when weighted properly you wetsuit will compress at depth and you need to add air to compensate for that.