SurePlease tell us about your typicle dive conditions.
I dive in a very remote region
On 40% of the dive we encounter strong washing machine currents, down currents are present on 10 - 15% of the dives. Visibility can range from 50m to 1.5m
We all carry ponies - more correctly stages. Yes they're there for redundancy, they're also there for additional contingency. On a 1 hr normal dive using a single 15L (HP125) I plan to be on the surface with 90 bar (or 50cf) as do others. The stages are there as an added precaution.
We are a group of friends, we have strict "rule" You stay with your buddy, because the conditions might need both of you working together.
If you lose your buddy you look for the prequest 1 min if it's' safe to do so and immediately ascend under your dsmb IF the pick up boat sees one dsmb early it's looking for the other. If the second diver's dsmb isn't' seen or their not on the surface within a reasonable time, a recall goes out. And then we'd be summoning the Coastguard -
It would be unthinkable for anyone on lost buddy to continue their dive as a solo. If one did that would be the end of their diveign that weekend and would never be invited again.
When new people join us, the rules are explained. Everyone adheres to them and everyone has a good time.
I'm not against ponies whatsoever. I'm against them being used as a substitute for people failing to be good buddies etc. I'm even more against the mentality from a minority that if they lose their buddy they'll continue diving because they have a pony and it's okay to continue the dive as it was their buddies fault anyway.