halocline
Contributor
As its been mentioned. Incident reports from BSAC do not support the myth every OOG diver will go for the one in your mouth. The reports show divers do (mainly) what they were trained to do.
My experience is that OOA divers (twice) have gone for the regulator in my mouth. One of these was a divemaster trainee who got a little confused and panicked during an attempt to demonstrate an OOA drill. The irony was evident; even someone with supposedly advanced training, tasked with demonstrating this training by reaching for an octo in the "golden triangle", got nervous and simply grabbed what she saw, a working 2nd stage in use by another diver.
And many divers are not well trained, so predicting their behavior when they are in an emergency situation is even more problematic. But, imagine what an OOA/panicked diver truly wants, which is AIR, NOW!! Now imagine what he/she sees when looking at another diver. It doesn't take much to see the inevitability that many, if not every one, of these divers are likely to grab the 2nd stage currently in use. It is absolutely the simplest solution to their immediate problem.
In this sense the octo/inflator is part of the way towards being a decent concept. However, since these things are typically used within standard recreational set ups, with the primary 2nd stage on a short hose, the air-sharing is with a hose far too short to be practical. All it takes is getting yanked around once by a flailing, out of control diver to understand the absurdity of sharing air on a 28" hose. And then, as you mentioned, the confusion of buoyancy control and breathing from the same device can quickly become a problem.
Diver training and recreational diving can get away with less-than-ideal air sharing practices because OOA emergencies are pretty rare, and most divers will never encounter one.