Wow, this thread has really gone of the beaten path quickly. We've moved from Scuba Divers to experts on Sexual Predators. Seems today everything bad that happens gets blamed on "Sexual Predators" and everyone is an expert.
Here's an original idea: Just answer the young lady's questions.
Nice... someone that can actually think, rather than simply react to an assumption. Last I checked, we still do live in America... yip you can have an opinion but you just can't find someone guilty based on hearsay.
how many here have ever had someone misinterpret something you said or did? I know have. On more than one occasion I've had people believe I've said something I've not said. I said something that made them 'assume' my intent. That's not to say I didn't play a part in the confusion. But what they think they saw is not what I did, what they believe I said is not what I meant.
While I believe the OP thinks this guy molested her and I won't dismiss it out of hand. I know too that most people have no concept of how squirrelly a non diver can get on an adventure dive. And while it'd be impossible to convince me there's some sort of mistake about the kissing of the hand and nibbling on the neck (but just for fun girl you shoulda just grabbed his lower lip, pinched and held on for about 30 seconds, I PROMISE he'd have taken you right out of the water and said no more to you..... EVER)
The groping part could be easy to confuse. How many adventure divers hit the wrong button on the inflator? got any idea?..... almost everyone of them at some point hit the wrong button. If she had done that and this guy was trying to arrest an ascent it may be that she perceived his manhandling her to stop her from breaching like a whale, to be a molestation. When we do something like that often times we must quickly and unexpectedly take control of the diver, most commonly I will grab them by a BC strap, this puts ones hand precariously close to a woman's breast. And if not afforded the option of being ultra careful (i.e... already on the way up and out of control, or their flailing around knocked my hand out of the way) I've been known to miss the strap by an inch or so and have to take another grab
It's really cool to try and sound all sweet by taking someones side and condemning someone they are ticked at. And indeed it is right to condemn what she believes to have happened. However without knowing just what he did that constitutes groping and hearing a bit more from her AND hearing his side of the story before we kick the guy in the ballz, take away his means of income and internationally brand him a 'Sexual Predator' I would hope we'd have a little more info to digest.
By writing a letter to the dive shop she could let them know how she perceived things. By writing a letter to his certification agency she makes them aware of the situation too. Both 'should' require that he at very least address her grievances.
As far as reporting it to the local authorities?... IMO it's too late for that.. she'll see zero results and will spend a not insignificant amount of money on phone calls and time.
I'd let the shop know too that if I am unsatisfied with how things transpire I WILL be posting the instructors name AND the name of the shop. I only hope that if she does so she is 100% confident that she has made no mistakes, and that she affords the guy the opportunity to face his accuser if he so wishes... while he may reside in another country... here.. in the U.S. we are innocent until PROVEN guilty not ASSUMED to be so... and while not perfect IMVHO it is the best the world has to offer.
Some things such as this, are very hard to diagnose 3rd party, though it's enticing to play the role of a partially informed armchair lawyer. I am exceedingly thankful none of the people that have condemned this person and branded him a Sex offender with no more than an UNSUBSTANTIATED internet post from someone NONE OF US KNOW! had nothing to do with the drafting of our constitution as I think our nation would be run more like a prison camp.
hang em' quick, hang em' high. If they're innocent god will figure that out later.