NC Wreck Diver
Contributor
Hey Tom:
I read your posts and all the replies. Your information is good, and everyone's response has hit on everything needed to achieve good bouyancy control. He should be properly weighted in the pool, then put in a decent Quarry. I see in your bio that you have been to Dutch Springs. Is that in Bethlehem PA? I was there all day, and took five newly certified guys to the Cessna plane in 30 feet of water. As I expected, it was hectic, since they were new. So my one point is that typically all new people have little on no idea of neutral bouyancy, and how to acheive it. It's a learned skill. Enough said. We're all on the same page. Let's talk about something different about your bud.
Is he SCUBA Diving for the love of the sport (like all of us)? Or is he just doing it for you? You guys are best friends, that cool. Is he slow to gear up? Is he overly nervous? You are obviously the crutch for his mindset that he doesn't need to learn all the basic skills. As he gets more training, he will get better (I hope). But you sound really stressed over this situation (which is clearly understandable). It's taking away from a sport that I can see you really enjoy. It's not your job to be a constant Rescue Diver for your friend. Somebody is going to get hurt.
Training.........sure. I'm always learning new things, and my first OW cert was in Dutch Springs in 1985. Get a good instructor and get some relaxed, FUN training for him. Let the instructor hone his skills, and maybe you can follow along after a while diving back up, to see his progression. But he needs to know you're not there to help him, just watch him. Let the instructor earn his money. IF HE wants to dive, he pays. Sounds like you supplied him with enough gear and moral support.
Inbetween these sessions, you guys should go have a beer ot two. Ask him for a straight answer. What does he expect from diving? Is it all about you? Or is it about you had him having a great time and sharing the best sport in the word. If you're in SC, Dutch is way too far. Find a good clear spot like Dutch. But a pool alone isn't deep enough. You need open water, with a little depth, but I wouldn't suggest the ocean yet. Somewhere with no currents, waves, salt water, etc.
I hope this helps. It could be a mind thing instead of just a training thing. Good luck.
I read your posts and all the replies. Your information is good, and everyone's response has hit on everything needed to achieve good bouyancy control. He should be properly weighted in the pool, then put in a decent Quarry. I see in your bio that you have been to Dutch Springs. Is that in Bethlehem PA? I was there all day, and took five newly certified guys to the Cessna plane in 30 feet of water. As I expected, it was hectic, since they were new. So my one point is that typically all new people have little on no idea of neutral bouyancy, and how to acheive it. It's a learned skill. Enough said. We're all on the same page. Let's talk about something different about your bud.
Is he SCUBA Diving for the love of the sport (like all of us)? Or is he just doing it for you? You guys are best friends, that cool. Is he slow to gear up? Is he overly nervous? You are obviously the crutch for his mindset that he doesn't need to learn all the basic skills. As he gets more training, he will get better (I hope). But you sound really stressed over this situation (which is clearly understandable). It's taking away from a sport that I can see you really enjoy. It's not your job to be a constant Rescue Diver for your friend. Somebody is going to get hurt.
Training.........sure. I'm always learning new things, and my first OW cert was in Dutch Springs in 1985. Get a good instructor and get some relaxed, FUN training for him. Let the instructor hone his skills, and maybe you can follow along after a while diving back up, to see his progression. But he needs to know you're not there to help him, just watch him. Let the instructor earn his money. IF HE wants to dive, he pays. Sounds like you supplied him with enough gear and moral support.
Inbetween these sessions, you guys should go have a beer ot two. Ask him for a straight answer. What does he expect from diving? Is it all about you? Or is it about you had him having a great time and sharing the best sport in the word. If you're in SC, Dutch is way too far. Find a good clear spot like Dutch. But a pool alone isn't deep enough. You need open water, with a little depth, but I wouldn't suggest the ocean yet. Somewhere with no currents, waves, salt water, etc.
I hope this helps. It could be a mind thing instead of just a training thing. Good luck.