I am 28 and Male... Don't hold it against me! I am overweight... Currently sitting at 285 and 6'2. I am not really 100% overweight, lets go with like 60%, for the sake of argument.
Before I was even able to take my Open Water I had to arrange special gear due to my size... My BC was a XXL and honestly here in Victoria, BC I had to find someone to lend it to me... My wetsuit, well that was bought before my first day in the ocean came through...
I was "ribbed" by friends because of the hoops I jumped through, just to get in the water...
Fast forward to over 200 dives later, a little over a year and half later and here I am... In the same wet suit... No problems just great enjoyment...
My feelings are yeah weight is a problem, be cautious with bottom times and you will be okay. I have pushed my own limits and have come through without harm... As always no matter ones weight be overcarefull and you come out A Ok.
You know I am going to get my wife to read this thread because she has some of the same worries!
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