Thanks for the reply and support @TNEngineer. I don't have a lot of physiological discomfort other than a sort of "full ear" feeling but the psychological impact of the hearing loss and 24/7 tinnitus is pretty rough. I really appreciate the thoughts and feedback of others.
I was able to push to see the ENT again this past Friday as I was really unhappy with my first appointment. He wasn't particularly pleased to see me again and continued to be pretty dismissive of my concerns, but at least we had a discussion this time (instead of him pretty much shooing me out of the exam room once he'd given me his diagnosis and treatment plan). He explained that (a) surgery isn't the go-to option in his opinion because there's no way to know for sure it's PLF and (b) he wasn't someone who would be able to do the surgery. He also mentioned something along the lines of "I don't think anyone's ever even seen an actual fistula" which seems at odds with the case reports referenced in this thread. Makes me concerned that this situation might be too far outside this ENT's experience for him to treat me properly.
I did get the audiogram results back and I have severe hearing loss in my left ear and mild hearing loss in my right. The loss in the right was somewhat of a surprise to me but after thinking about it that might be why it's so hard to function--the right ear can't even fully pick up the slack from the left. Subjectively I think the left ear has started to improve a little bit (can hear a few low frequency sounds) but not a lot.
I pushed for more info on surgery and was told that there are only two otologists on Oahu who could do it; the ENT warned me that both were booked out for 4-6 months. He gave me an urgent referral to both but I was told I'd probably have to wait a week or two to even hear back from their offices about getting an appointment (so much for "urgent!"). They should have received the referrals by tomorrow morning so I plan instead to call directly tomorrow, and call back regularly to see if there are cancellations so I can at least see an otologist and figure out what my options are at this point.
Worst case scenario I've also considered flying to LA to see an otologist but flying at altitude seems like way too much risk.
I was able to push to see the ENT again this past Friday as I was really unhappy with my first appointment. He wasn't particularly pleased to see me again and continued to be pretty dismissive of my concerns, but at least we had a discussion this time (instead of him pretty much shooing me out of the exam room once he'd given me his diagnosis and treatment plan). He explained that (a) surgery isn't the go-to option in his opinion because there's no way to know for sure it's PLF and (b) he wasn't someone who would be able to do the surgery. He also mentioned something along the lines of "I don't think anyone's ever even seen an actual fistula" which seems at odds with the case reports referenced in this thread. Makes me concerned that this situation might be too far outside this ENT's experience for him to treat me properly.
I did get the audiogram results back and I have severe hearing loss in my left ear and mild hearing loss in my right. The loss in the right was somewhat of a surprise to me but after thinking about it that might be why it's so hard to function--the right ear can't even fully pick up the slack from the left. Subjectively I think the left ear has started to improve a little bit (can hear a few low frequency sounds) but not a lot.
I pushed for more info on surgery and was told that there are only two otologists on Oahu who could do it; the ENT warned me that both were booked out for 4-6 months. He gave me an urgent referral to both but I was told I'd probably have to wait a week or two to even hear back from their offices about getting an appointment (so much for "urgent!"). They should have received the referrals by tomorrow morning so I plan instead to call directly tomorrow, and call back regularly to see if there are cancellations so I can at least see an otologist and figure out what my options are at this point.
Worst case scenario I've also considered flying to LA to see an otologist but flying at altitude seems like way too much risk.