point taken. But you all did it by observing and asking questions.
I realized I needed a better approach to deco by eavesdropping about deep stops and going out and doing it, thinking it through, re-thinking compartments, etc. DIR divers and others have helped me so much, I enjoy the forum, learn from the forum (nobody can stop that) Only I can be an obstacle to learning if I let certain types turn me off to the extent that I reject it all. Sure, they would love to run me off..but now they don't effect my dives much, do they? Who really cares if they mock single Al 80's? I bet there are certain things I am more astute about doing an Al 80 deepish dive than if I had doubles. Having a smaller margin of error has certain mental benefits. Being smaller and more agile does too. At some point you can't go back, even if you thought it was a good idea.