gis_gal:
Why is it that if you say hello and smile that instantly means that you want them.
yes, this is a big problem for women.
ok... but this is what bugs me. sometimes i can't express feelings for a woman that
is not mistaken for "coming on to her."
i went through law school with this other (female) student. i was in the
trial team, and was senior to her, so i was assigned as her coach.
i coached her. she was brilliant. she won the trial team competition that year.
she would have won no matter who her coach was, she was that good.
she told me about some personal problems she was having with her husband
and so on, and i tried to listen and be as helpful as possible.
after law school, we lost touch with each other.
i run into her. i am SO happy to see her. i'm like, what's new with you? what
have you been up to? do you want to go to out with my wife and i and catch
up?
so later i hear she is going around telling people i have a crush on her
and am hitting on her.
hello?????
oh well...