Everyone's different, and they can change. It used to be (at 136 kg) I could do 6 or 7 40 minute dives a weekend in just a 7mm no problem and do my last dive in a 3mm for 40 minutes (but I had to have an active safety stop).
Now that I'm about 90 kg, in Mexican cenotes, I can't stay still for more than about 15 minutes or I start shivering. And that's with a hood.
I'm not a fan of the drysuit, but it's the only way to go if you're cold. What's normal for someone else, or for most everyone else, doesn't mean it's normal for you.