Louie once bubbled...
Sadly, I have yet to meet a woman doing something similar.
Louie...I frequently take dive trips on my own without Beast. He sometimes can't get off work and a really good deal come along so I go by myself....usually at his urging. But it's not unusual for me to find a real spur of the minute deal so I'll call him at work and say "See ya Sunday!"
For years we had seperate hobbies and interests...Beast liked hunting/guns and I quilted/sewed. We each supported the others choices and encouraged each other to enjoy them but other than me attending an occasional hunting show or he attending a quilting show, we rarely participated in each others hobbies. And we drew apart, each with our own set of friends and activities.
Then he came home from work one day and said "We're going to be scuba divers!" Our lives, public and private, changed that day. Seven years later we are closer, better friends, and our marriage couldn't be better. He hasn't been hunting and I haven't quilted in years...neither of us has the desire to do so....and we haven't missed the old seperate way of life.
I know of several relationships with a non-diving SO but they take alot of work, sacrifice and dedication on both parts.