Well here's the situation in a nutshell.
What do you figure a DM makes in a day? $50 - $100? So, in the course of a 14 hour job (they get up to fuel the boat, fill tanks, load the boat, dive dive dive, then get back, clean the boat, fill the ice trays, put away the tanks, blah blah blah) they get if they are lucky $100 bucks. Bear in mind, I'm basing this off my own observations as a DM and Boat Captain in Key Largo for a large operation in the summertime. So $100/14 hours = $7.14/hour.
So here's the real question: Do you trust your life to someone who is making $7.14 per hour? Lets up it. Do you trust someone who makes $14, $28 or $50/hour? The answer should be: Hell No.
Only YOU are trustworthy with YOU. You can't count on ANYONE else. I don't DM dives anymore thankfully. But even when I'm teaching a technical class, the very first day of class, my students are made aware the fact that they CANNOT count on me to get them out of the cave. I could have a heart attack. I could get knocked unconscious by another diver kicking me in the face. I could have a stroke. They are taught from the very beginning how to survive step by step. Day 1 teaches them how to get out on the dives we do day 2. Day 2 teaches them how to survive dives we do day 3. Day 3 teaches them how to survive the dives on day 4. At no point do they progress until I am confident they can survive on their own.
So, we move back to the OP. You knew you were running low on air. What are YOU tasked with doing? You are tasked with surviving. That's it. Well, how do you survive?
My question about depth was simple. If you were at 50' on the ascent line, and you had 500lbs (I'm assuming your wife had 500lbs also, or something near this) why did you run out of air prior to reaching the surface? 50' / 33 + 1 = 2.51ata. An AL80 (77.4cu') at 500psi holds roughly 13cu'. At 50' it would take you less than 2 minutes to get to the surface. Even if your SAC rate was 2cu' per minute (which would be extremely high), you'd still have more than double the gas you needed to make it to the surface. So with that said, we're missing something in the story here. I just did the math, even with a 4.0 SAC rate (which I don't believe is possible) 4 x 2.51ata = 10cu' and you have 13 cu' of gas. What aren't we being told?
At any rate, you are responsible for you. No one else is, regardless of what you paid them to do. Survive. It's your job.