I remember my first dive trip to Maui. We did several boat dives, all with a guide. I remember being horribly anxious when Peter would stop to take pictures or look at something, because the guide would keep going, and I was sure we HAD to be with the guide. I think, in retrospect, that was a reflection of my lack of confidence in my/our diving, and also my fundamental misunderstanding of the purpose of the dive guide. Although I'm not sure I could have articulated it, I'm certain I thought the guide represented safety. (For one thing, my navigational abilities in those days were nonexistent!)
One of the most important lessons in diving, I think, is to realize that, if you don't feel as though you are safe in the water without being able to stay with a guide, you probably shouldn't even be doing that dive. And it's also important to know that guides don't always make the best decisions for YOUR safety. You knew, in this case, that you were low on gas and needed to head back, and you didn't do it because you put staying with the guide ahead of the single most critical parameter of a dive, which is your supply of breathing gas -- which my husband likes to tell his classes, represents your life expectancy! This is a case of misplaced priorities, combined with a too passive approach to safety.
Good lesson learned, I hope. Thanks for sharing this, because I think this error is all too common.
One of the most important lessons in diving, I think, is to realize that, if you don't feel as though you are safe in the water without being able to stay with a guide, you probably shouldn't even be doing that dive. And it's also important to know that guides don't always make the best decisions for YOUR safety. You knew, in this case, that you were low on gas and needed to head back, and you didn't do it because you put staying with the guide ahead of the single most critical parameter of a dive, which is your supply of breathing gas -- which my husband likes to tell his classes, represents your life expectancy! This is a case of misplaced priorities, combined with a too passive approach to safety.
Good lesson learned, I hope. Thanks for sharing this, because I think this error is all too common.