After my last post, I'd like to relate a story about a dive that went ahead due to "peer pressure" and could have ended badly.
A group of divers and crew took a boat trip out on the North Sea. We left at about 11pm to get to where we would be diving at about 7am (IIRC). Nobody slept overly well and several were sea sick before getting to the first dive site.
The boat anchored over the wreck and we all geared up. I was to dive with two buddies that day. One of them was fit and the other wasn't. He didn't want to miss the dive and I didn't want him to miss the dive. I gave him a pep-talk and we got all geared up. He wanted to go but I could see he was struggling. I figured if he got in the water that he wouldn't feel so sea sick and his head would clear so I kept pushing him.
We plunged. The line to the wreck was at an angle and we descended through about 30 metres of swirling algae before arriving on the bottom. Upon arriving he let go of the rope and fell to his knees on the bottom, hunched over like a runner who had just crossed the finish line. I could see his breathing was out of control. He was panting. I took position in front of him and signed to "slow down", to "breathe".... gave him signs for "no problem" and "wait".... at first he didn't look at me, but when he did, it was frightening. He suddenly looked up but didn't look in my eyes. I could see that he looked right through me, like I wasn't there.... and then BAM!!! he took off to the surface like a bat out of hell.
I managed to get a hand on him and deflated my BCD to slow him down. He had ahold of the up-line and was swimming like he had seen the devil himself. About 1/2 way to the surface he slowed down and at 5m he suddenly stopped, turned to me, perfectly calmly, and said, "OK" and then signed that his breathing was ok and he would do a safety stop. I waited for him to do his SS and surface and then myself and the other buddy descended again and finished what was left of the planned dive.
And THAT is what peer pressure will do. This was a diver with several hundred dives under his belt but because of me pushing him and him not being strong enough to put the brakes on we got ourselves in a situation that could have ended very badly. At the time I just felt terrible that he missed the dive and mostly wondered what had happened that he couldn't control his breathing. It was only after the fact that I realized that my own behaviour had contributed significantly to him putting himself in that position.
R..
---------- Post added December 24th, 2013 at 03:18 AM ----------
Ha. Like the one about Mc Donald's.
He was a recent friend and not someone with whom I'd done much diving. We anchored in about 10 m of water and had just started the dive. We dropped to the bottom and all appeared okay. I swam off a little way looking at the reef and noticed a big hole that went down another 6 m so I dropped into the hole to have a quick look. When I came up a little while later I looked over at my buddy. He was doing what appeared to be frog hops along the reef and the bubbles were profuse and erratic. This went on for some time. I motioned for him to come over but he seemed to ignore me. I swam over and looked into his mask. His face look pale to bluish and bloated - like death warmed up. He appeared to be spaced out though he was breathing. I dropped one of his weights and swam him to the surface. When we got to the surface he was conscious and we climbed back onto the boat. He had a blood nose. He said he had trouble equalizing and shouldn't have done the dive. I didn't press him on the matter any further so I'm not really sure what happened. I'm not sure he really knew what happened. I went and retrieved his weights and we called it a day.
Wow.... sounds like that could easily have ended in disaster.
R..