Originally posted by Natasha
What can I do
Natasha,
All I can say is tread extremely lightly, or things can backfire drastically. I still remember vividly the conversation with my father where he asked: "When are you going to cut your hair and take out your ear-rings. You'll never be successful with long hair and ear-rings". It was the worst possible thing he could have said, as it quickly became my life goal to prove him wrong... and to continue to harass them. Last night's entertainment was to stop by with shorts on to subtly introduce the new tattoo...
If I could think of anything my parents could have done or said to make me quit smoking, or cut my hair, or go on the 'straight and narrow', I would tell you... but unfortunately the lessons I've learned I've learned on my own, and I still have many more...
Best of Luck.
I told myself 12 years ago "I'd quit smoking when it starts to hold me back". I never thought it did. The depressing thought is that I know it must have held me back along the road, and I'll never really know where I could be now if I knew now what I knew then.
I quit for a while to try and save my marriage. I started again to try to save my marriage [only those that have tried to quit smoking'll truely understand that statement
]. I'm now starting to quit again as I begin getting my life back in order. I'm still smoking, because I'm taking things slowly this time... attacking the bad points one at a time... It's been a 3 days now, and 3 pieces of strategically timed nicorette, and we'll see how it goes...
-Jeff